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Spring is here, and so is the flu…

first aid kit

The good thing about this last burst of cold/flu season is that your local pharmacy is most likely well supplied with all of this stuff. As opposed to mid January when it’s all sold out…

It looks like the end of the tunnel is in sight. We’ve had a couple of days in the 50′s, which at this point feels warm beyond all reckoning. We have also had snow flurries, freezing rain and temps in the teens in the past few weeks. The combination is a recipe for disaster.

Which is why, though I really did mean to post this oh, back in November at the start of the cold and flu season, I am writing about it now. Because my daughter was out sick this week, as were all sorts of other folks. We can’t let our guard down. It ain’t over till it’s over, my friends, and it is far from over.

Here is a quick list of the various things I do to keep my family as healthy as possible. And I must say, we’ve done pretty damned well this year.

Elderberry tea, they say, is as effective as a flu shot if taken regularly. It is also available as a tincture, and an extract of the plant, in pill form, called Sinupret works wonders on sinus infections. Elderflower tea works more on upper respiratory problems, while the black elder, which is also more tasty, is what people tend to take for flu and chest issues.

Honey is just delicious. Turns out it is also great for calming a cough. In a tea, with lemon juice, hot water and apple cider vinegar, it can potentially cure whatever ails you. This is the drink I usually make at the first sign of cold symptoms. You can also add a little cayenne pepper to the mix, if you (or your kid) can take the heat.

Oil of Oregano is a powerful antibiotic used to treat respiratory tract disorders, gastrointestinal (GI) disorders, menstrual cramps, and urinary tract disorders. It is overwhelmingly potent, so dilute it at least 1:3. I usually take a drop of this while I’m waiting for the water to get hot for my apple cider vinegar tea. I would not recommend giving it to your kids, unless you don’t want them to trust you ever again. It tastes horrible.

I first discovered Oscillococcinum when I had a cold in Paris, which sounds much more romantic than it was, let me assure you. I worked really really hard to learn how to pronounce it so that I didn’t sound like a fool to the pharmacist when making my purchase… Actually, this was my introduction to homeopathy, a practice that is as common in Europe as taking aspirin is here in the States. You put a bunch of these sugary pellets under your tongue as soon as you think you may be getting sick, and they magically make the illness go away. But you have to catch it at the onset. This is great for kids, as the medicine is so mild, and it tastes good.

ColdCalm is just like Oscillococcinum, but for sniffles more than aches and fever. Same pros and cons apply. My daughter LOVES this stuff.

Chestal is basically honey in a jar. And yet it actually works surprisingly well as a cough suppressant. One thing to note: the kids formula is IDENTICAL to the adult version. It’s just a marketing thing to put the word “kids” in happy crayon writing on the bottle. Everybody can drink from the same vessel, in this case.

Put a drop of sinus oil under each nostril and you can feel the passages clearing up instantly. A combination of eucalyptus, peppermint, tea tree and thyme, you can also put a few drops of this in the humidifier before bedtime to help you breathe more easily through the night.

As might be evident from the extensive nature of this list, I have tried all sorts of homeopathic kids medicines, and for whatever reason, that I honestly cannot explain, Natrabio’s Children’s Cold and Flu Relief drops are the ones that work for us. So I now always stock it. I notice it is often sold out, which is reassuring, if also a bit annoying.

And lastly, but potentially most importantly, the twin pillars of Goldenseal (another natural antibiotic) and Astralagus (used in Chinese medicine to support the immune system) in tincture form are also quite helpful when taken at the onset of symptoms. I tend to give mild tasting Astralagus to my daughter to avoid her demanding some kind of ice cream chaser, as she does with some other drops I try to get into her.

I’m sure there’s lots more, but this should get you through at least these last few weeks before Spring settles in for good. Please feel free to add your own favorites in the comments. I am all about learning new tricks wherever I can!

I still love Gilligan’s Island

Every weekday afternoon, when I was a kid, my sister and I would come home from school and settle down in front of the TV for a blissful hour of Batman and Gilligan’s Island.

I am currently reliving this little habit, with my daughter subbing in for my sister, who lives far away on the island of Manhattan and has her own after school activities these days. What with it being #throwbackthursday and all, I figured I’d share…

We’ve watched all the Batman episodes, so it’s on to Gilligan’s Island. And I’ve got to say, the show is potentially even better now than it was then, as I can now appreciate the total absurdity of the whole situation, rather than being slightly bothered by the number of outfits Ginger and Mrs Howell had packed for a three hour cruise. (as a 7 year old, that drove me CRAZY)

I hear they made a movie where the castaways are rescued. I’m not sure I ever want to see it… Somehow I feel a bit better knowing that somewhere out there, 7 people are running around on a tropic isle, listening to the radio and coming up with crazy and impossible plans for their rescue. We can all learn a little something from their optimism.

Monday, Monday… or more posts about kid stuff because my daughter is away for a week and I miss the hell out of her

My daughter is off on her own vacation to the west coast to visit her grandparents. Part of the fun of the airplane is getting to watch back to back movies on an ipad. One of them being this haunting, academy award winning, 2006 version of Peter and the Wolf.

It might seem counter-intuitive, but we may actually help our kids more by letting them struggle than by being quick to lend a helping hand.

Sleeveface is a photographic project composed of, in it’s own words, “one or more persons obscuring or augmenting any part of their body or bodies with record sleeve(s) causing an illusion.” In my words, it’s genius, pure and simple.

It may be 20 something degrees outside, but spring has already hit Sweet William, one of my favorite spots for kids clothing. I’m looking forward to the near future, when we don’t have to bother with coats that cover up a cute dress like this.

Remember wishing you could live in these like totally amazing kids rooms from TV shows of yore?

And while we’re on the topic of kids’ rooms, check out Apartment Therapy’s Ode to Expedit, the soon to be discontinued box shelving unit that we all have owned at some point in our lives. Fear not. There is a replacement. And it’s name is Kallax. Same inner dimensions (Yay! I can still store my LP’s!) but a thinner frame. Because it turns out, Ikea actually ares about the environment and is trying to use less wood. What an oddly lovely thing to do.

What’s not to love about making these no-bake fruit and nut bars? It’s a family activity that involves cooking, coconut, a food processor and sweet deliciousness at the end. I’ll be making these as soon as little Miss Thing gets back into town. Food52 tells us how to make this dream a reality.

10 movies you can watch with your kids during the break that don’t suck

Because sometimes it’s nice to have somebody else doing the entertaining. And if you’re anything like me, you will end up watching most of the film with your kids, so it has to be at least somewhat interesting to an adult mind. My mother, by the way, thinks I’m crazy for sitting in front of the screen with my daughter, but maybe she would have felt differently if we were watching movies like the following:

Grease. So your kid needs to understand the concept of boyfriends and girlfriends and be able to tolerate their parents singing along (I know every word to every song of this movie) but as long as you got those bases covered, you’re good to go.

Freaky Friday. There is something incredibly satisfying about watching a mother and daughter switch places with your own kid. Also, when it comes to watching movies, there are three words that are of tantamount importance. Always. Watch. Original. There is no way the 2003 version even holds a candle to the 1977 classic.

The NeverEnding Story chronicles the potential fall of the mythical land of Fantasia, the very existence of which is threatened by The Nothing, an evil creature created by human despair. Totally weird mid-80′s fantasy science fiction that foreshadows The Lord of the Rings/Avatar style films of today.

The Bad News Bears is a perfect kids sports movie for both sexes with a nice father/daughter thing thrown in for good measure. And with Walter Matthau and Tatum O’Neal in the lead roles, you’re sure to score a home run (sorry, I couldn’t help myself…)

Ponyo is a beautiful animated fairy tale about a little sea creature-turned-human who is adopted by an incredibly forceful and resilient mother and her son. But of course, the sea threatens to take over the world and it’s up to the kids to make things right. Directed by the incomparable Hayao Miyazaki. None of his movies, by the way, are to be missed.

Yellow Submarine. Also animated, also trippy, but this time it’s a musical and you probably already know all the words, even if you never saw the film. What kid doesn’t love the Beatles, at the end of the day?

Speaking of musicals, if you haven’t seen this one yet, and gloried in the talents of Kevin Kline and the beyond brilliant performances of the entire cast, you basically haven’t lived. (The trailer kind of sucks for this one, so I’m showing you one of the great songs instead…)

The Fantastic Mr. Fox. Wes Anderson at his animated best. This is a rare case in which the film is truly an improvement upon the original book.

Hello Dolly. Barbara Striesand. Walter Matthau. Gene Kelly directing. Louis Armstrong in a cameo. What more could you want?

The Bear can be difficult to watch, but it does address pretty much all of the important stuff about respecting our environment and the other beings in it, forgiveness, love… The bears, who’s actual voices and sounds are all used in the film, give academy award worthy performances and we all left this film with a renewed respect for the natural world around us.

So that should get you guys through the weekend. Worse case scenario, you can always just watch all the Harry Potter movies back to back, which is what my daughter is doing right now (one a day… I don’t think my nerves would survive a marathon…)

Painting with vinegar on baking soda

painting with vinegar on bakng soda

Three kids, mesmerized, sitting happily around a table, creating magic with the simplest stuff. Without stopping. For over 40 minutes. I kid you not.

What do you do when you want to hang out with your adult friends who are spending the weekend, but the kids just want you to play monster and chase them all around the house for hours on end? You bust out a cookie sheet (perfect use for the one that my husband has ruined by blackening a few too many vegetables on it’s gentle surface) a lot of baking soda, some white vinegar and food coloring. Oh and glass droppers, which you can often get at your local pharmacy, or, of course, online. (These, by the way, are a good thing to have on hand for all sorts of uses.)

It’s very simple:

  • Set the cookie sheet out (or smaller cake pans, if the kids each need their own surface) and fill it with a generous amount of baking soda. You may want to put a towel underneath, in order to protect the table.
  • Fill small cups (or the compartments of an ice tray) halfway with vinegar.
  • Put a few drops of food coloring in each cup. Show kids how to use droppers and squirt colors onto the vast whiteness of the baking soda trays. Watch them marvel at the fizziness that ensues.
  • Sit back and relax, while your kids play for a good 30 to 45 minutes, if not more, with no need for adult intervention. It is truly a gift from the gods.

 

If you choose, you can get all science class about the experience and explain to them that carbon dioxide is released when acids (like vinegar) and bases (like baking soda) combine and react to each other. Or you can just keep the whole thing feeling more like a magical arts and crafts show. Up to you.

Oh and a shout out to the excellence of my friend Nancy, who brought all of the above supplies with her to our house (along with her family) this past weekend. A lovely morning was had by all as a result of her foresight. They are welcome at our place any time.

Gift Guide, Chapter 8: Books, because one can never have too many, as far as I’m concerned, pt 2 ( for the kids)

These are a few of our current favorites that a) I haven’t written about before (or at least I don’t think I have) and b) are available new, so you can still buy them and have them shipped to whatever little kids you need to gift in time for Christmas. If you act right now.

may i bring a friend

May I Bring A Friend?
won a Caldecott in 1965 and continues to be totally charming today. A kid keeps bringing his sometimes badly behaved animal friends along when invited to dine with royalty, and the King and Queen keep inviting him back.

free to be you and me

Free to be You and Me. Because all little girls and boys should be allowed to be whatever they want to be, free of gender based stereotypes and full of great stories and songs (sung by the likes of Alan Alda and Rosie Greir if you get the CD)

pancho rabbit and the coyote
Pancho Rabbit and the Coyote. This charming book successfully tackles the issue of migrant workers from the point of view of a Mexican rabbit.

magic tree house
Magic Tree House Books. I have yet to meet a kid who doesn’t love Jack and Annie, the heroes of this seemingly endless series of adventure stories. They get to learn about various periods and figures in history in that sneaky this-is-not-homework kind of way that makes the parents love them too.

planting the trees of kenya

Planting The Trees of Kenya
. The inspirational story of Wangari Maathai, a Kenyan woman who singlehandedly inspired the planting of 30 million trees in her native Kenya. One woman really can change the world.

Mr Wuffles

Mr Wuffles
. The story, told all in pictures, of a finicky cat who finally finds a toy he’s interested in playing with. Only it’s not really a toy…

copenhagen cats james joyce

The Cats of Copenhagen
. This whimsical and humorous tale was originally written by James Joyce (yep, that James Joyce) for his 5 year old grandson, who must have had quite an imagination and clearly loved cats.

little women

Little Women
. A classic. And any book about a bunch of sisters who happily do tons of chores and are devoted to their mother is a favorite in my book.

Gift Guide, Chapter 2: Things to give to young elementary school kids and their baby siblings

dagmar daily dress

It’s a total splurge, but if you have a special little girl in your life, you should go to Sweet William and get her this dress because her mother is probably too practical to spend this much on clothes for her kid. ($92, but worth every penny)

feather clips from sweet william

What little girl doesn’t want a colorful feather clip (for $24) in her hair?

wooden bus from land of nod

I spotted Land of Nod’s wooden Double Decker Bus ($19.95) on A Cup of Jo (who’s gift guides are brilliant, by the way) and almost wished I had a kid little enough to still want to play with it.

arrow mobile from one kings lane

This beautiful arrow mobile ($179) will keep your little one on the straight and narrow, but you have to act fast cause it’s only on One Kings Lane till December 9th!

activity book

The Littlest Activity Book ($15, also on One Kings Lane just till the 9th) is full of imaginative things to draw, patterns to make and tales to illustrate. A preschooler could use it with her parents and your 6 or 8 year old with an artistic bent could work on it alone. Instead of an iPad.

eboo bird

A pink floating bird ($5.95) or a blue one or a purple one…

embroidered raccoon art

What child wouldn’t love this magical embroidered ermine waving a wand perched atop a racoon’s head? (by Michele Varian, $148)

play kitchen

Every kid should have their own kitchen to play in. It’s up to you (and the size of your abode) to figure out which one. This big one ($339) has everything you need, plus a nice amount of storage.

tabletop play kitchen

Or you can go handmade and table top with this Little Kitchen ($100) by MamaMadeThem on Etsy. She’ll even made you one to order if you’ve got the time.

nuop strawz

Build your own long multi-sectioned drinking straw. (Only $11.95!) Hours of fun. No joke. My daughter went crazy for this one. She even figured out how to have us both drink from one glass at the same time. Clearly she is a genius…

magnatiles

Magnatiles. The holy grail of building materials. If I had a dime for every castle/fort/animal hospital/ocean liner we have built with these things, I would be writing this from some tropical island that I owned. (set of 100 for $120)

The gifts begin…

handmade bunny

This time we went minimal and handmade with the now-obligatory birthday party goodie bag

I have a hard and fast rule that states that the Christmas/Holiday season does not start until after Thanksgiving. Hanukkah starting the night before turkey day is messing me up this year, and as my daughter recently had a few girlfriends over for a birthday tea party, we have had gifts on the brain. And goodie bags. And get-the-apartment-together anxiety. In fact, my husband and I stayed up till 3 am the night before, rearranging the furniture, redecorating and sewing together the little cotton ball stuffed bunnies that the birthday girl wanted to give out to her guests but was not quite skilled enough to complete on her own. I’m still tired.

And I must admit that, while sewing away, I did have a few moments of “are these girls even going to appreciate these amazing little pieces of handiwork?” But I pushed those dark thoughts aside. The bunnies were, of course, loved by all. And the birthday gifts that were left behind are a real tribute to how well these little girls know their friend.

They were so great, in fact, that I am going to share them here. Maybe there are some ideas here for the little ones on your list. But please don’t start singing carols till Friday, at least…

hansa stuffed rabbit

Hansa Toy International does not make stuffed animals. They make “portraits of nature.” That just happen to be really cute and soft and the kind of thing you’ll probably keep around long after the imaginary friend phase is over. At Sweet William, of course.

pengolo

Pengoloo is a memory game made of all wood (yay!) involving penguins sitting on brightly colored eggs, dice rolling, icebergs… what’s not to love? At Mini Jake.

odyssey re told by Gillian Cross

We’ve been reading D’Aulaires Greek and Norse Myths for years, so Gillian Cross’ retelling of the Odyssey is a natural follow up. A contender for the greatest story ever told, with illustrations (by Neil Packer) that are a kind of mashup of greek antiquity-meets-tibetan mushroom trip. It’s on sale right now at Barnes & Noble.

magic science kit

This magic themed science kit is the perfect thing for a little person who is obsessed with science and who just finished reading all 7 Harry Potter books (and watching the movies, too.) You can get this at Target, since you know you go there regularly anyway. Don’t play like you don’t…

sew a dolly kit

This Sew a Dolly craft kit comes with a little stuffed doll and then all the materials you need to sew her dress. Everything is pre cut, and it includes a plastic needle and nice easy to handle thick thread so that the kids can do the whole project themselves! At My Sweet Muffin.

vintage 'gold' necklace

And lastly (but far from least) from my daughter’s oldest pal, this huge vintage ‘gold’ chain necklace. Which goes with the sparlky red Dorothy shoes and the box full of long shiny princess dresses she already has. You’ve got to happen upon a fine second hand treasure like this one, but you can always try browsing Krrb… you never know what you might find there.

Now it’s on to the thank you notes

Granddad Sampson’s honey punch

honey punch

Three bottles of our own honey punch, with handmade labels by someone who is just mastering the art of the lower case letter.

Today was the Harvest Day Pot Luck afternoon snack party at my daughter’s school. My co-class parent and I (Yep, you heard that right… I am a class parent…) decided that it would be great if the things people brought in somehow reflected their cultural heritage, since the class looks like a mini United Nations.

So I, of course, turned to the deep south and my all time favorite soul food cookbook which just happens to be the work of close family friends: Spoonbread and Strawberry Wine. Written in 1978 by Norma Jean and Carole Darden, it is a combination of recipes and family history, with photographs and long descriptions of the various personalities who’s culinary creations grace it’s pages.

We decided to make honey punch (see recipe below). Partly because I loved the photo of Granddad Sampson and he seemed really cool and all-knowing, partly because it is sweetened only with honey, which is something we all need to be ingesting during this cold and flu season, and partly because it looked like the kind of thing my independent 6 year old could make largely on her own.

It was a huge success– subtly sweet, without that crazy saccharine taste. The kids loved it straight up, the parents mixed it with sparkling water (though it would probably taste great with rum, too…)

spoonbread and Strawberry wine

The Darden sisters, on the cover of their seminal cookbook, in the late 70′s.

So thanks to the Dardens, for helping me to serve up yet another delicious treat. (Norma Jean’s restaurant, Miss Mamie’s Spoonbread too, up in Harlem is well worth a visit) The book is out of print, but you can still find reasonably priced copies of it on Alibris. If you like soul food, you will love this book. I promise.

Here’s how to make the punch:

1 1/2 quarts water
1 cup honey
juice of 3 lemons
juice of 3 oranges
3 cups pineapple juice
1 cup unsweetened grape juice
1 cup crushed pineapple
fresh mint springs

Heat 2 cups of the water so that it is warm enough to blend honey into it easily. Cool. Then mix in remaining water, juices, and crushed pineapple. Pour into tall glasses filed with ice. Garnish with int sprigs. Makes about 3 quarts of punch.

Happy drinking!

A book and a barrette

borrowers by mary norton

My aunt, who has rescued countless books from her local public schools’ discard bin, gave us this book several years ago and it’s been in regular rotation ever since.

Just a quick post to give a shout out to two items that are getting quite a bit of air time in our universe these days. Either one would make a good kids gift, what with Hanukkah bearing down on us and Christmas hot on its heels. My “official” (whatever that means) gift guide posts aren’t starting till next week, but I figured I may as well toss a coupe of things into the fray early.

First up, The Borrowers, the classic novel by Mary Norton chronicling the story of a family of tiny people who live under the floorboards of a big old house in the English countryside. We are currently reading this for the third time. The idea that there might be little people nicking our safety pins is almost too exciting for my daughter to bear, and I can’t imagine that she’s alone here.

I especially love our 1953 edition, because the line drawings (by Beth and Joe Krush) are so compelling. Plus I’m a big fan of buying books second hand whenever you can, and this one isn’t particularly rare or expensive.

Oh and then, once you’ve read the original version, check out The Secret World of Arrietty, a beautiful film from Studio Gibli (the folks who gave us Ponyo and Spirited Away) that takes the story and twists and expands it in a way that is entirely satisfying, true to the original spirit and lovely to watch. It was a children’s movie that I was actually excited to go see in the theater. And how often does that happen?

isabel et toi hair bow

Nothing puts a smile on a girly girl’s face like a big bow.

My daughter has pretty wide ranging taste… she loves scooters, star wars and digging for worms in the garden… but all activities must be done with as girly a dress as she can possibly get her hands on. Which can be hard for her mom who, while known to love a skirt and heels for herself, is not so into sparkles, lace and bows.

But they say you have to let them be their own people.

And I respect that. I swear. But if she’s going to wear big old bows in her hair, at least let them look like this one (by Isabel et Toi) that we found during a recent visit to our all time favorite kids store, Sweet William. You can order them online too, if you don’t happen to live in Williamsburg or lower Manhattan.