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A great guide to summer fun

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Learn how to build this amazing tree house a tons of other cool stuff on Apt Therapy. Photo courtesy of Apt Therapy

This is just a super short shout out to the brilliant folks at Apartment Therapy (how did we survive before this website?) who just posted a list of 50 individual brilliant summer projects to keep our kids (and us) busy and fulfilled as we slide into the real meat of this glorious season.

Because if you guys are anything like me, it’s just now hitting you that we have TWO MORE MONTHS of being completely in charge of our kids’ activities. Which is, of course, a wonderful opportunity and what we live for as parents. Right?

But as I am far from a professional, I, for one, will take all the help I can get.

Enjoy!

Grown-up soda

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In an attempt to keep this delicious soda all to myself, I told my daughter it was “for grown ups” and that she probably wouldn’t like it.
No such luck.

This blue bottle of heaven from Brooklyn Soda Works arrived with our CSA bounty this past week. Who wouldn’t be excited about drinking Apple & Rosemary soda? To wit: the scene at the dinner table last night wasn’t pretty, with my husband and daughter almost coming to blows over the last few drops.

Which of course sent me, in a panic, to brooklynsodaworks.com, desperately searching for information on how I can get more of this stuff into our lives. Especially after I heard mention of flavors like hibiscus & mint, or grapefruit, jalapeno & honey.

Of course you can’t just get some at your nearest Whole Foods, but if you happen to be in Williamsburg on a weekend, stop by Smorgasburg or the Brooklyn Flea to fill up. Or order one with a meal at Parish Hall, Blue Hill or a number of other small tasty eating establishments around town.

In the meantime, I will now try to figure out how to become best friends with them, so they’ll deliver straight to my door. I’ll let you guys know how I make out…

Sweets for the sweet

artisinal marshmallows by wondermade

Your grandmother would definitely recognize all 6 ingredients in these babies.

I have gotten into the bad habit of arriving every afternoon at my daughter’s school with some kind of treat. And by treat, I of course mean some kind of sweet thing. Not blackberries mind you (though she loves those, too) but something that falls into the forbidden-fruit category of — dare I say it — candy.

And as I am one of those parents who puts a limit on the amount of sugar ingested by my child every day, this has begun to pose a challenge. I am not so hard core as to turn my nose up at all sweets, but if we’re going to eat ice cream, let it please be from the artisinal homemade indie ice cream truck, not Mr Softee, if you know what I mean.

And we live in a town that makes this kind of discretion easy, thank god.

So imagine my delight when, after eating a delicious breakfast at Alice’s Arbor in Bed Stuy, I sidled up to their little grocery counter and discovered these homemade, all-natural-ingredients marshmallows by a company called Wondermade. It’s the perfect after school bite: A box full of 16 tiny bits of sweet soft deliciousness, without the high fructose corn syrup I have been so studiously avoiding since I became a parent.

Made by a couple on Orlando, FL, they come in all sorts of off beat flavors like orangesicle, root beer and lemonade. They even have a special 4 pack for Father’s Day consisting of bourbon, coffee, guiness and maple bacon. How cool is that?

And if you don’t happen to see them in a store in your hood, you can always buy them online. (just like you probably buy everything else, anyway…)

I took my 5 year old to see Matilda

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Matilda, The Musical

Matilda, The Musical

… and she LOVED it.

One of my closest friends in the world lives in Mexico City and comes to NY a few times a year for a taste of her old hometown. During this most recent visit, we took our children (my kindergartener and her 7th grade son) to see the Royal Shakespeare Company’s brilliant musical production of the dark and slightly twisted Roald Dahl’s Matilda.

It was over two hours long, the actors spoke and sang in heavy British accents that even I had trouble following at times, and yet my daughter was riveted. And so was I.

The set (designed by Rob Howell) was a movable feast of letters and desktops and books and bedrooms that truly captured the spirit of the story without being at all distracting. The performances were all mesmerizing and fully deserving of all of the Tony nominations they have received. (for once!)

I could go on and on, but there’s no real point. The New York Times review says it all.

drawing of trunchbull

An inspired artist rendering of the evil Miss Trunchbull, with “I hate kids” in kids spelling scrawled across the top.

What I would like to do is to share one piece of advice with anyone who is considering taking a small kid to a Broadway show that starts right about bath time and ends long after the lights usually are turned out.

Read the book with your kids. At least once if not twice. Talk about it constantly. Draw the characters. (see above photo of the evil Miss Trunchbull) If there’s a soundtrack available, buy it and listen to it. Don’t worry about ruining the story. The more they know, the more they will love it. Oh and bring lots of snacks.

Click below for a few more photos and a link to buy tickets… — Read more

The Tree Book

The Tree Book will help you feel like less of an idiot when your kids ask you what kind of tree is out front. Or down the street.

The Tree Book will help you feel like less of an idiot when your kids ask you what kind of tree is out front. Or down the street.

Now that the weather has finally gotten lovely, we are walking a bit more slowly and paying more attention to the world around us. Which leads to the inevitable conversations about the various trees that grow on our block and in the playground and at my parents house, etc etc.

I have been coming up way short, in my role as mother/tree expert. I know cherry trees when they blossom, and I’m sure I can tell a pine from a maple, but that’s about all. I’d like to say it’s because I grew up in the city, but we have plenty of trees here, so maybe I should just say that I grew up with my eyes closed.

But they are open now, and the Brooklyn Botanical Garden’s Tree Book For Kids And Their Grown-ups is exactly what I need to help “teach” (aka learn at the same time but I am a faster reader and as such get to be the expert) my daughter all about the trees that are all around us, providing us with air and shade.

drawing of dogwood tree

Get to know each tree through these lovely drawings.

The drawings are beautiful and comprehensive, so that we can really begin to be familiar with the leaves, seeds, flowers and even bark (see below) of various trees. I am looking forward to the day when I can walk around all knowingly pointing out various trees to groups of adoring children who have gathered round to soak up my wisdom.

At least now I have a place to start.

tree bark

Learn to tell the difference between a Saucer Magnolia and a Weeping Willow just from the trunk!

You can buy the Tree Book on the Brooklyn Botanical Gardens website.

And you should.

Tackling tough issues

sit in by Andrea and Brian Pinkney

A book that appeals to anyone curious about the civil rights movement in the 1960′s.


As the mother of a bi-racial, interfaith child, I have my work cut out for me in the teach-your-kid-their-family-heritage department. And while its tempting to gloss over it altogether (Slavery! The holocaust!), ignorance is the one sure fire way to guarantee that the unsavory aspects of history keep repeating themselves.

So we’ve chosen to keep our eyes open and, as a family, try to understand what has gone on before us as a way to feel empowered about our ability to improve our future. And when I encounter a great book on one of these topics, I grab it, because there is no better way to illustrate a point than through the power of a good story.

Sit-In: How Four Friends Stood Up By Sitting Down
by Andrea Davis Pinkney tells the story of the 1960 sit-ins protesting segregation at the Woolworth lunch counters in Greensboro, North Carolina. The story is powerful, without feeling oppressive. It’s told simply, but without being dumbed down (which is what drives me crazy about so many children’s books out there. The illustrations (by husband Brian Pinkney) are bold, exuberant and colorful, perfectly representing the spirit of these brave civil rights protestors.

The core message is big and bold, so even the beginning reader can digest it by herself, making it all the more powerful.

The core message is big and bold, so even the beginning reader can digest it by herself, making it all the more powerful.

There is also, if you really want to get into it, a timeline chronicling the major events of the entire Civil Rights Movement (see below) which helps put this particular event into context.

A timeline of the Civil Rights Movement in the United States.

Here’s the timeline.

In the end, Pinkney distills the whole struggle for integration into a simple recipe:

1. Start with love.
2. Add conviction.
3. Season with hope.
4. Extra faith to flavor.
5. Mix black people with white people.
6. Let unity stand.
7. Sprinkle in dignity.
8. Fold in change.
8. Bake until golden.
10. Serve immediately.

It’s a recipe we should all learn by heart and pass along to everyone we know.

A fairy garden

a fairy garden

Our very own fairy garden.

My daughter has been obsessed with The Girls’ Book of Flower Fairies for years now, and is always scanning the pages for fun activities and ways to bring the magic world of fairies into our humdrum daily lives.

Her latest obsession is the flower fairy garden, and she insisted that we make one IMMEDIATELY. Which was a bit of a challenge, because it is the dead of winter. But I hit Jamali, my favorite prop house in the flower district in Manhattan, and then bought a couple of lovely easy-to-care-for indoor leafy plants at Sprout Home ( a polka dot plant and some kind of fern) and we were in business. You can see the results above. — Read more

Cecil the Pet Glacier

Cecil, the Pet Glacier

Cecil, the Pet Glacier. A marvelous and mysterious picture book by Matthia Harvey.

My friend Ellen Harvey, an extraordinary artist in her own right, has a sister who is a poet. Which is about as cool as it gets, if you ask me. Their parents should be over the moon.

But I digress. Matthea Harvey (the poet) has recently published a beautifully weird and wonderful children’s book about a little girl who tries to be normal (despite the eccentricities of her parents, who make topiary and tiaras) but only raises her oddball profile when she is strongarmed into adopting a glacier as a pet.

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Although one might say, “With parents like these, who needs a pet?” — Read more

A longer read

wind in the willows and the jungle book

You don’t have to be a kid to enjoy these stories.

We have been reading more long form books lately, especially now that we have finished our Lord of the Rings marathon. (sob!) Talking animals have replaced elves and hobbits in our two recent favorites: The Wind in the Willows and The Jungle Book. Both classics, available in a multitude of formats, abridged and uncut, Disney and otherwise.

I always go for the original version myself, as the language of the authors is so much richer (and so much more interesting for the grown ups to read!) And Penguin and Puffin, two aptly named and beloved publishers of literary classics, have given us two lovely versions of these volumes to enjoy and maybe even keep around the house for awhile. Actual books. Made from paper. That you hold in your hands. With pages that turn. Crazy.

This edition of The Wind in the Willows is part of the Penguin Threads series and features a front and back cover that is an embossed representation of a crazy embroidered Mr Toad driving madly away in a car. The inside cover is, appropriately, the back side of the embroidery. The physical object of book itself is a pleasure to hold in your hand… thank you Penguin. I never read this book as a child, so I was just as enthralled with the mysterious world of these animals as my daughter, and also just as sad when it was done.

But we drowned our sorrows in The Puffin Classics edition of Rudyard Kiplong’s The Jungle Book. Which I also never read as a kid (What was I doing?) Who knew that after the seminal story of Mowgli and the Tiger there were a whole mess of other, equally captivating stories of animals in the Indian jungle?

Another lovely thing about the Puffin Classics is that they include an afterward, with facts about the author, more in depth information about the various animals (who knew that wolves have three eyelids?), and activities and questions to further spur imagination. And they are interesting, intelligent questions. Not the dumbed down squeaky annoying stuff you hear for kids on TV these days.

So go out there and get these books. Or get other ones. (and then let me know which ones you love) And read some of these longer classics to your kids. You’d be suprised how willing they are to sit and listen when it’s a captivating story. And how nice it is to carve out a little analogue time in this digital world we live in.

Guilt free screen time

chalk_laptopWe are a family that spends a very limited amount of time watching TV or movies or playing games on our smart phones. We don’t have a television, much to the chagrin of all of our parents, though we manage to survive without falling into an abyss of complete ignorance.

I’m also not a big believer in giving your little kids their own phones or computers, because I think they can learn more from a cardboard box, tape, crayons and some friends than an iPhone app. Until I laid eyes on this computer/chalkboard by iWood, which is brilliant.

Because it’s a computer, just like the one Mommy and Daddy are always looking at. And it’s better because you’re totally allowed to draw all over it and no one will get mad. Plus it never needs to recharge.

If only this were the kind of laptop I needed to carry around…

They make a phone, too, which is equally cute, if a bit too small to be effective to do much drawing on.