Monday, Monday– or 7 interesting lists of things worth checking out in the digital universe

A wall mural girl waters a real tree in Poland. Photo by Natalia Rak on BoredPanda.com

A wall mural girl waters a real tree in Poland. Photo by Natalia Rak on BoredPanda.com

28 pieces of mostly 2-D street art that brilliantly interact with their 3-D surroundings.

How 15 of the world’s greatest thinkers manage their time. (They all seem to be getting an ample amount of sleep.)

Here are 7 ways for you to start getting a better night’s sleep. Maybe you will then become one of the world’s great thinkers.

According to the people at World of Wanderlust, these are the 12 most scenic countries you can visit to escape reality.

We should all check out this list of 5 easy ways to start reusing grey water in our gardens (if we have gardens) and implement at least one of them into our regular routines. Because from what I’ve been reading lately, water shortages are going to start being a huge world-wide problem in the near future.

12 great DIY posters, record covers and zines from the 70′s punk and reggae movement. Lets bring this spirit back, shall we?

32 top rental houses featured on Remodelista. In case you’re in the market for a beautiful place to stay…

Yesterday, at some point…

East Hampton Star classified

Is this the answer?

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Yesterday, at some point is a series of photographs that describe a moment I experienced during the previous day. The posts are meant to be stand alone images, though at times I can’t control myself, and I end up expanding the caption into a more lengthy bit of text. Hopefully the extra information is useful, or at least interesting. If not, feel free to ignore it.

More soaps to love

Lavender liquid soap (and a Vintage Rose refill) from the Southampton Soap Company

Lavender liquid soap (and a Vintage Rose refill) from the Southampton Soap Company

I never thought I’d see the day, but we FINALLY finished the random, overly scented liquid hand soap in our bathroom. Oh happy day. I can now go out and buy something that I actually want to use, instead of being mildly annoyed every time I wash my hands (but not so annoyed that my sense of not wanting to waste anything disappeared…)

I’d recently bought a really nice healing salve from the Southampton Soap Company, so I headed straight to their table at the local farmer’s market and checked out their soap selection, which is formidable. Their products are all handmade locally, the packaging is understated and beautiful, the all-natural ingredients are carefully sourced and I swear there is a little fairy dust in their salve, but don’t hold me to it.

I am a fan of soap bars, but everybody else in the family prefers bottles, so we ended up with both. First, an all-natural liquid castille soap set– the pump is filled with Lavender, but we chose Vintage Rose for our refill just to change it up a bit.

A felted bar of lavender soap from the Southampton Soap Company

A felted bar of lavender soap from the Southampton Soap Company

And for me, this amazing felted soap bar. I’ve never seen anything like it. It’s like a sudsy-gentle-exfoliating-bar-washcloth all in one. I think I may be outing myself as a deep hippie here, but I don’t care. Felted soap bars are the bomb, and I plan to make them a regular part of my life from now on.

And so should you.

Tofu, anyone?

soy sauce tofu stirfry

One of these days, I will have the presence of mind to actually photograph the dish once I’ve cooked it. But in the meantime, I have borrowed this image, beautifully shot by Mark Weinberg, from Food52.

I have been in a bit of a food rut for the past few months… My energy seems to dry up right before I begin the long meandering path down the road of meal planning and grocery shopping. I have resolved to try to break out of it, despite still feeling terribly lazy. I am also not currently super motivated because I am spending the vast majority of my time alone with my 6 year old who would be happy to eat avocado risotto every day of her life, with a steak thrown in every now and then for good measure.

My cookbooks are back in Brooklyn with my husband, who doesn’t need them, so I am taking a very modern approach and turning to a few websites for guidance. Luckily, there is no shortage of recipes online. Right now, I find myself drawn to Dinner, a Love Story (almost more for reading pleasure than cooking, though she always has great ideas), Food52 (for it’s lovely photography, huge inventory and everyday cooking section) and the new, still in beta, NY Times Cooking site (which is state of the art, full of videos and informative how-to’s and will probably become everybody’s go-to once it “officially” launches.)

Last night’s dinner comes from Food52, which I must say has always done me right, and a quick and easy Soy Sauce-y, Peanut-y, Tofu over rice. Lots of soy sauce makes pretty much everything palatable to my daughter, and the hardest thing about the dish is locating Shaoxing wine, which I did not manage to do out here on the east end of Long Island. I used a dry sherry, which is evidently the western-style sub, but I plan on getting some of that exotic sounding brew when next I find myself in civilization. I feel like this meal (which ended in plate licking, by the way) is going to join the others on the heavy rotation list.

Here’s how to make it:

Serves 4, generously, which is good because you’re going to want leftovers.

The Tofu Part

2 blocks of tofu, extra firm or firm
2 onions, thinly sliced
1 teaspoon fresh ginger, minced
3/4 cups unsalted peanuts, whole or halved, roasted or raw (depending on personal taste and what they have at the store)
Cooking oil

The Sauce Part

3/4 cups soy sauce
2 tablespoons Shaoxing wine
2 tablespoons rice vinegar
1 tablespoon molasses (I used agave here because I didn’t have molasses)
A touch of lemon or lime
1/2 teaspoon roasted sesame oil

If you have time, press the tofu. (Place it under a weighted cutting board for a half-hour, letting the liquid run off or get absorbed by paper towels.) Dry it off. Then slice it into small cubes, in the 1/2-1-inch range.
In a wok or a large frying pan, heat a tablespoon of the oil on medium-high. Then add the onion and saute, stirring occasionally, until golden brown. Scrape it out of the pan and reserve for later.
While the onion is browning, stir together the sauce ingredients. Taste. It should be sweet and salty and a little bitter, too. Adjust until the flavors are aligned to your taste. You might want more molasses or more Shaoxing wine; you might need a squeeze or two of lemon or lime for more acidity.
When the onion is done, add a couple tablespoons of oil to the wok or pan and increase the heat to high. Add the tofu and immediately toss it with the hot oil. Then leave it alone. Let it sit for a few minutes, longer than seems wise. Once the tofu begins to brown, stir it to brown the remaining sides. It should take around ten minutes total. A minute before it is done, add the ginger and briefly saute it. Then spread the browned onions and peanuts on top and add the sauce. Gently stir, so that everything soaks in the sauce, and let the liquid reduce for a few minutes. Reduce until the sauce is as thin or thick as you like. Then turn off the heat, drizzle the sesame oil on top, and serve.

Yesterday, at some point…

homefrombeach

A couple of weeks ago we had some time to kill in SoHo before a doctor’s appointment, so when my daughter suddenly expressed the urgent desire for a sun hat, we headed over to J Crew just to see if they had anything there that was reasonable. And lo and behold, 15 minutes later, we walked out with the perfect hat: wide brimmed, easily foldable, and blue (one of her two favorite colors.)

As you can see from the above photo, it is in high rotation.

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Yesterday, at some point is a series of photographs that describe a moment I experienced during the previous day. The posts are meant to be stand alone images, though at times I can’t control myself, and I end up expanding the caption into a more lengthy bit of text. Hopefully the extra information is useful, or at least interesting. If not, feel free to ignore it.

Monday, Monday– or more links about the USA, getting organized and staying cool

Woops, guess computers aren’t better at everything. Check out what happened a couple of years ago at at July 4th in San Diego when the computer decided to set off all the explosives at once!

Now that the search for the perfect red, white and blue napkins is behind us, I am suddenly finding myself reflecting more thoughtfully about important stuff like what America is all about. Frederick Douglass had some interesting things to say about that back in 1852 (13 years before the abolition of slavery) and James Earl Jones reads some excerpts.

While we’re on the topic of our fair nation, here are !3 facts about the USA that conservatives would rather we all forgot…

And speaking of altered realities, here’s one person’s honest comparison of their real life vs the version they put up on Instagram.

My pretend Instagram universe, if I had the energy to produce one, would be filled with all sorts of organized cabinets and NO CLUTTER. Here are a few tips personal organizers use to help turn that fantasy into reality. (Oh and Apartment Therapy has some other tips worth checking out too…)

And while I was visiting Apartment Therapy, I couldn’t help but check out the House Tour called Claes and Melinda’s Natural (and Beautiful) Chaos. Any couple who lovingly describes their home as chaos are my spiritual brethren. Looking at their place gives me hope. Maybe I don’t need to aim for emptiness, just a bit of order…

And lastly, a propos of nothing except the heat… here are some great ways to cool your body from the inside out, using the ancient practice of ayurvedic medicine as a guide.

Happy Rainy America’s Birthday!

4th of july dream catcher

This has been the view out of my daughter’s room all day today. The rain has been relentless, but at least we know that no bad dreams will get in…

Thanks to tropical storm Aurthur (or hurricane Aurthur, depending on where you are and who you are listening to) our July 4th has been pretty much washed out. Not that we had any real plans.

Our day has been filled with friends, puzzles, fairy tales, freshly baked chocolate chip cookies, an impromptu kids gallery show, a family viewing of Galaxy Quest (quite possibly the funniest cult movie ever made, starring the unspeakably brilliant Alan Rickman) and an upcoming BBQ, made possible by the abatement of the rain.

I cannot imagine a more appropriate way to celebrate our nation’s 235th birthday.

Have a great weekend everybody…

Hippie candy

st claire's organics lemon tarts

A practically guilt free candy to slip to your kids (or yourself) in an emergency. Which we all experience at one point or another…

Ok so we’ve been to the ice cream parlor. But sometimes we are in the car, or on the train, or at the bank desperately trying to keep the kids’ eyes off of the pot of those solid pieces of blue high fructose corn syrup disguised as lollipops. And for those times, I give you St Claire’s Organics’ Lemon Tarts.

Yes, they are slightly sweetened, but more by the molasses than by the organic cane sugar. And at least it’s just straight up sugar, like what’s in homemade cookies, and not syrup, like what’s in marshmallows and snickers bars. And they are tiny, but full of that sweet/tart dichotomous flavor, so a little goes a long way.

In my next life, I’m coming back as a No-Sugar-No-Screen-Media style parent (hopefully with a trust fund and a driver too, while I’m fantasizing.) I have read about how sugar is essentially poison and how TV before age 2 can really impede brain development. And I’ve already thrown out the plastic food storage containers and the non-glass water bottles, so I’m already half way there, right?

But in my current reality, I am choosing my battles, going for moderation rather than extinction, and hoping for the best. Every once in awhile, my kid gets some kind of candy. I have decided that watching old Wonder Woman episodes and sharing the occasional sweet with my daughter is too much fun to pass up completely. And if that makes me some kind of selfish parent, then so be it.

A cure for what ails you

Brooklyn Farmacy

When all else fails, get in your car or on the train (or walk, if you are lucky enough to live nearby) to the Brooklyn Farmacy for some old school ice cream fountain goodness.

Summer is here big time. My brain is already wilting with the heat and the haze and the unplannedness of it all. But I am doing my damndest just to slow down and enjoy it, rather than fight through these absolutely-no-time-to-myself days.

I have decided that it’s ok to let my kid watch a movie a day if that is the only time I have to get anything done for myself. It’s also ok to let bedtime slip back to 9:45 (or 10:30 as was the case last night) if that means she sleeps in till 9 am. It’s like living in Spain without having to travel.

And above all, it’s ok to have ice cream for lunch… it just is. Especially if you make an adventure out of it and head over to Carroll Gardens (What?? Leave Williamsburg?) to the stupendous old fashioned perfection of a soda fountain called the Brooklyn Farmacy. So named for it’s location in a former pharmacy and decorated with all sorts of ephemera from said establishment, this place is an egg cream lover’s dream. And a mac & cheese lover’s, and and ice cream sundae lover’s and a grilled sandwich lover’s… In fact there is something for just about everyone here. Check out their current menu– it changes seasonally– if you need more evidence.

the inside of Brooklyn Farmacy

Located in a former pharmacy, the place feels more like a genuine old neighborhood spot than the Disney-esque tourist traps that seem to be sprouting up like weeds all over Brooklyn these days.

We started a recent visit off with a mountain of their mac and cheese, steaming hot with the most perfect crust on the top. Plenty for the three of us to share and then feel less guilty about the main course… the star attraction… the ice cream.

icecream_sand

I stayed super traditional and went for the homemade vanilla with chocolate cookie ice cream sandwich, though they (of course) have all sorts of other combinations to choose from. It is one of my all time favorite forms in which to ingest ice cream and I will almost always order one if the opportunity arises. (And if you’re really feeling ambitious, here’s how to make your own!)

Josh had a good old straight up chocolate egg cream, that was ingested too quickly for me to photograph.

pink_float

But the piece de resistance, and leave it to my daughter to order it up, was the divine Pink Poodle, an ice cream float made from their homemade hibiscus soda topped with a huge scoop of vanilla ice cream.

By the time we left the place, it was as if nothing bad had ever happened to us ever and we lived in a universe filled with sunshine, sweetness and light.

And who doesn’t want to feel like that?

Monday, Monday– or more links with advice for the summertime

This is my daughter's new favorite look for the summer. I am totally jealous and am dying to copy her, though I fear it may not be appropriate for a woman of my age. Oh well...

This is my daughter’s new favorite look for the summer. I am totally jealous and am dying to copy her, though I fear it may not be appropriate for a woman of my age. Oh well…

The sales are on… Makie, my favorite (but totally not inexpensive) clothing line for kids always has some great pieces on sale this time of year.

If money is no object (or selectively no object, like when it comes to beauty products) here’s a list of top all-natural sunscreens that really work and don’t go on like plaster.

Make yourself a delicious red cabbage stir fry like the ladies from A Beautiful Mess evidently do all the time…

And while you’re cooking, try one or all of these super easy summer appetizers from Dinner A Love Story when you’re having friends over (or just want to feel festive!)

I almost never look at Buzzfeed, but the brilliance of their list of 28 travel hacks for summer road trips might turn me into a regular visitor…

Having people over for July 4? (which is Friday, by the way…) Here are 10 red cocktails from the ever stylish Design Sponge that will brighten up any Independence Day table. (just add a blue table cloth and white napkins and you’re good to go!)

Last, but not least, the sale is raging over at Bird so maybe now is the time to buy a new pair of summer shoes for Way. Less. Money. (’cause who doesn’t love a good markdown?)