June 2014

Why I kind of wish I were a french mom in the late sixties

Christine Ripault

Children’s cookbook author Christine Ripault, back in the day, just casually stirring up a few things for the kids.

It’s quite obvious, isn’t it? Because I would get to dress like above pictured french author Christine Ripault, and feed my kids things like malted milk and carrot juice for breakfast and Wheatena soup with swiss cheese for dinner. Or supper, as it’s referred to in her book.

I can’t remember now exactly why I bought a copy of Ripault’s out-of-print-yet-still-available classic book Children’s Gastronomique, but I did, and I have loved it continually ever since. As the book hails from the pre-everything-is-processed days of the 1960′s, the food is wholesome, but not at all precious. Boiling and chopping up some lettuce leaves and adding this to cream of wheat is something I would never have thought up on my own, nor would I have found it in any of my Alice Waters-esque slow food style cookbooks, which I love, by the way. But boy did my daughter love this dish back in the day when she was just starting to eat solid food.

And there are some simple but also delicious recipes from major Parisian kitchens… The chef at Maxim’s, for example, recommends this Brill Fillet Au Court-Bouillon in which you prepare a court-bouillon (basically a vegetable broth with vinegar and some herbs), then use it to poach a fish fillet in a covered pan till it’s done, toss a bit of salt and pepper on and finally serve it up with butter and lemon juice.

Delicious!

Sure, we’ve learned a thing or two about nutrition since then, and for one thing might now trade in some of the white bread for whole grain, but the essence is still there. Plus it’s just so great to absorb how nonchalant the french are when it comes to just about anything. Very refreshing, especially if you are, like I was, an over researched, slightly anxious, secretly insecure new mother.

But at the end of the day, as long as I just show up to cook dinner in outfits like my girl Christine’s, I’ll win any kind of parenting contest hands down!

Children's Gastronomique, by Christine Ripault

Here’s my copy of the renowned book, a bit beat up but all the better for the wear, if you ask me. Published way back in 1968. Still available on Alibris and eBay.

As summer approaches, so do the ticks…

intelligent nutrients tick repellent

This “perfume” is actually a super effective all natural tick repellant by another name.

If you spend any amount of time on Long Island, or CT, or basically any place in the Northeast, you know all about ticks. You may even be paralyzed with fright, refusing to go outside or even approach a blade of grass for fear of becoming yet another victim of the dreaded Lyme disease.

Lyme is quite serious, and every precaution should be made to avoid it. But that does not mean we need to stay indoors, or to spray our backyards to death with horrible poisons that are killing the ticks, sure, but also doing who knows what else.

The best thing to do is to keep vigilant, use natural repellants, wear shoes outside and then check for the little buggers at the end of the day.

Last year we discovered the above pictured perfume spray-cum-bug repellant from Intelligent Nutrients and I must say, we have not gotten a tick since we started using it. And by we, I mean my daughter and me. My husband, on the other hand, seems to love ignoring my research and advice, can’t be bothered to use the spray, and has found a whole assortment of the little buggers on him at various points both last summer and this one.

rose geranium oil

Rose geranium oil is the most oft cited essential oil for fighting off ticks. It’s become my new best friend.

I finally put my foot down, as I was the one who had to take the little critters, trapped in a zip lock bag, up to our doctor for testing (the Lyme test done on the actual tick is much more accurate than the human version.) After reading this post about a woman and her dog using (and swearing by) rose geranium oil, I ordered some up and presented it to Josh this past weekend. Happy early Father’s Day, dear!

So far so good. Plus my husband now smells like a rose bush with a hint of citrus thrown in for good measure.

MDJunction has some more information on using essential oils to kill ticks, including herbs like eucalyptus, pot marjoram and tansy. They also validate the popularity of rose geranium oil for this same purpose. I haven’t spread my wings any further than the two above mentioned potions (trying to keep my hoarding instincts at bay here…) but here’s an interesting post on making your own all-natural bug sprays that is well worth checking out. And if anybody out there has any other tips for keeping the ticks (and mosquitoes, and flies, and gnats…) away this summer, I’m all ears.

Because as far as I am concerned, the only good tick is a dead tick. That was never on me to begin with.

Monday, Monday, on Tuesday– or a few ways to beat the heat induced blues

I have been having a hard time recently… maybe it’s the end-of-the-school-year-blues so common amongst parents, or just the increased heat and humidity which always take a big bite out of my energy levels. (Full disclosure: I have a mild case of Multiple Sclerosis, or MS, an autoimmune disease which often causes me to be extremely lethargic when the temps go up.)

Whatever the reason, I find myself, this year more than others, really searching for ways to beat these summertime blues. Here are a few things I’m going to try…

Watch Stripes. Because whenever I remember to watch this movie, I am happy. Even the trailer puts a smile on my face.

Take more naps. This may be hard with an energetic 6 year old at my side 24-7, but I’m going to do my best. Check out this article to see why quick power naps can really be a lifesaver.

Make sure I’m getting my vitamins, especially B12, which is crucial if you’re feeling sluggish. Read what the folks at Dr Oz have to say about this particular energy booster.

Listen to Tightrope, by Janelle Monae. Hell, even watch the video. Sure it’s a couple of years old, but so am I, and the tune still gets me dancing around the room…

Drink more hibiscus tea, which is evidently an ancient cooling herb, and is most definitely delicious. Check out this recipe for hibiscus strawberry rhubarb iced tea… Yum!

Eat more sour food. Especially some of the Southeast Asian soups that food writer Robin Eckhardt describes in her piece for the WSJ blog.

Mist myself with some peppermint hydrosol from Ever Brooklyn. Because a spritz of peppermint will always freshen me up in a pinch.

Yesterday, at some point…

waiting_at_LI

It is finally summer, and with the season comes the horrible Sunday night traffic on the Long Island Expressway.

But all is not lost, for the venerable Lobster Inn (now officially called the Lobster Grille Inn, but whatever) is open for business. And driving back to the city full of delicious lobsters and mussels and french fries and salads makes the whole bumper to bumper situation considerably more bearable.

Plus you get to hang out by the water (see above) whilst waiting for the feast to begin.

ps: Please forgive me… The regular Monday links post is coming, but a bit late this week.

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Yesterday, at some point is a series of photographs that describe a moment I experienced during the previous day. The posts are meant to be stand alone images, though at times I can’t control myself, and I end up expanding the caption into a more lengthy bit of text. Hopefully the extra information is useful, or at least interesting. If not, feel free to ignore it.

Strawberry season!

cut strawberries

Freshly cut and ready to pop into my mouth… oh no wait… into our muffins.

Strawberry season is rocking into full swing around these parts, and the Farmers Markets are bursting with color as boxes upon boxes of fresh sumptuous berries await purchase. So naturally, for this week’s year end Family Pot Luck breakfast at my daughter’s school, we decided to make strawberry muffins. One year I will be smart and bring a bottle of juice or something. But that was not my fate this go around, and I must say, the effort was worth it.

The muffins are actually quite simple to make– chopping the strawberries is the most difficult part. Unless you count having a 6 year old sous chef, which tends to turn everything into a somewhat more laborious endeavor than the solo version would have been. Sure it took us twice as long… but we had twice as much fun.

strawberry muffins

The muffins! Or at least, some of them…

And look at the result!! Worth every minute (and grain of spilled sugar, of which there were many.) Click below for the full recipe, and happy baking! — Read more

When Father’s Day and your husband’s birthday fall on the same week

Every year, about this time, I get a series of text messages from my mother-in-law asking me what she should get my husband for his birthday. He is notoriously picky, and she is a wise woman who knows that if anybody has an idea of what to get him, it would be me.

And while one part of me just wants to crawl into a hole (“It’s bad enough figuring out what I am going to give him, for Father’s Day and his birthday, let alone help people who need to shop early to allow for shipping!”) the other part of me does have answers. That part of me also needs to put up a blog post every day, so here, without further ado, is what I recommend giving to my wonderful husband for his birthday.

tom dixon math tools

He wants this group of Tom Dixon mathematician tools badly. So much so that I would venture to say this is the #1 choice, despite it’s apparent lack of practicality. Josh is a big fan of beautiful things and this set is that, in spades.

Crabs

Josh’s all time favorite food is the Maryland Blue Crab. Nothing makes him happier faster. Once upon a time one had to be in Maryland to experience them. But now Harbor House Crabs will Fed Ex them to you all ready to steam and eat. A gift certificate from this place would be a home run.

lumio lamp

I almost got this lumio book lamp for Josh at Christmas/Hanukkah last year… This would be the perfect thing for the little shed/office he has in the back yard.

everlane jacket

This lightweight jacket by Everlane would be perfect in a size medium. He has actually asked for it specifically, should there be any doubters among you as to whether or not he would approve…

money clip by Jill Platner

Josh already has one of these, but if you are shopping for anybody like Josh, and they don’t have a Jill Platner money clip, now is the time to get them one.

And then last, but certainly not least (in fact, this might be the best gift of all in this particular instance) there is always a plain old check. Fits perfectly, works in any season, always useful and appreciated.

Hopefully this has been a help, not only to the mother of my beloved, but for any of you out there who might be casting about trying to figure out what to give that certain someone for Father’s Day…

Bye bye mini me

old navy espadrilles

I just bought these fancy summer espadrilles from Old Navy for my daughter. I am now just hoping that they last the entire summer…

I have officially given up being strict about what my daughter wears. Actually I did that about 3 years ago, when she started having strong opinions on the subject. Truly a girls girl, she never wears pants, and would have sparkles all over every last accessory if they were made available to her.

When she was a toddler, I would have rather keeled over than given in to the obsession with shine, but I now realize that the only way to beat ‘em is to (sort of) join ‘em. So if the shoes must glitter, at least they can do so in a way that is somewhat palatable to the adult (me, pretty much always) who will be constantly by the side of the kid in question.

Which is why I jumped at these silver espadrilles when I saw them yesterday at Old Navy (on sale now for $16… run don’t walk) Sure, Old Navy isn’t known for it’s high quality, but little feet grow faster than most shoes wear out anyway, so who cares? And at these kinds of prices (sorry J Crew) who really cares?

Let us just say that I walked to school beside a little girl whose sparkly feet were floating on air this morning. And if that isn’t a parenting high point, I don’t know what is.

Plus her favorite color is brown, Wonder Woman is her preferred princess, and she loves Tretorns, so all is not lost…

Yesterday, at some point…

farmers market strawberries

Again, this was taken the day before yesterday but who’s keeping track, really?

This is my favorite time of the year, when the tables at the farmers markets are laden with strawberries and it feels like the entire place is bursting with the optimism of an upcoming summer full of colorful deliciousness.

Let the fruit season begin!

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Yesterday, at some point is a series of photographs that describe a moment I experienced during the previous day. The posts are meant to be stand alone images, though at times I can’t control myself, and I end up expanding the caption into a more lengthy bit of text. Hopefully the extra information is useful, or at least interesting. If not, feel free to ignore it.

An enchanted winter to remember

The Winter Of Enchantment by Victoria Walker

The Winter Of Enchantment, by Victoria Walker is a tale of multiple worlds, two kids, an evil Enchanter and a cat, among other things…

I have no idea where this book came from.

Seriously. I know I didn’t buy it, and my husband never buys children’s books, so he’s out. Don’t remember getting this as a gift, and it’s too clean to have been discovered at the dump. And yet, a couple of weeks ago, The Winter Of Enchantment just surfaced, in our house, in a pile of books. Naturally, we picked it up and began to read.

We were not disappointed. Back in 1968, when she was evidently just 21 years old, Victoria Walker crafted a masterful tale of a boy (set in the perfect Victorian (aka olden-days) London with horse drawn carriages, absentee fathers and all) who finds his way into an alternate world and devotes the rest of the story to rescuing the enchanting girl he meets on the other side of the mirror.

There is adventure, and near tragedy. The seasons make an appearance in the form of gods, tables produce lavish meals as long as you ask politely, there are huge houses made entirely of glass… all in all the perfect thing to read with a kid who is into an alternate universe filled with fantasy and excitement.

Which is just about every kid, if you think about it.

Yesterday, at some point…

1962

Technically, this moment happened the day before yesterday, but it was too good not to put up here.

There we were, driving through Queens on the Long Island Expressway, minding our own business, when I looked out of my window and was suddenly transported back to 1962 (or thereabouts) by this wonderful man and his excellent car. His attention to detail (the haircut, the glasses, the suit…) is truly inspirational. There is no doubt that he was having the time of his life.

As well he should be.

He and his car were the best looking things I have ever seen on that road. Period.

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Yesterday, at some point is a series of photographs that describe a moment I experienced during the previous day. The posts are meant to be stand alone images, though at times I can’t control myself, and I end up expanding the caption into a more lengthy bit of text. Hopefully the extra information is useful, or at least interesting. If not, feel free to ignore it.